Thursday, May 10, 2012

Dare you to CHANGE

We make plans enthusiastically and we fail at them miserably but still, we never give up planning and neither our habit of failing them. Only, if we could change the latter,we'll cross the line and be on the other side of grass which seems greener to us all the time. And to check the reality, we have to cross the line but alas, marred by our own   mental inhibitations, we thrive a mundane life wishing for something magical to happen like in fairy tales and how sad it is, we can lead our whole life on these changing dreams and desires and wishful thinking but never dare to move and be on the other side of line. How easily each time we console ourselves for missing the target. All the anger that boils our blood, all the guilty realisations, everything is- just like tides coming and hitting the shore and then vanishing away. It's only sometimes, the torrents / tsunamis come and change the scene. We too wait for that tsunami to come in our life and those lucky ones,which get hit , their lives changes for good or bad, God knows but "change" does come to them. And rest of us, we keep on waiting to be wooed by change, never thinking to go and embrace it all by ourselves. We wait till it is thrust-ed upon us whether we like it or not.
So today, I dare myself to bring a CHANGE in me, which I have been resisting for long and have paid a heavy price so far for my resistance. Can you think of any habit you would like to change in yourself but have not been able to ?  Anything that you have been planning to do, but didn't have courage to? Think and I am sure, you'll end up with a long list, So, it's time to Challenge Yourself, DARE YOURSELF to bring that CHANGE IN YOU, to do all those DARING things which you have always wanted to do.

P.S.: Wrote this post a month back but didn't publish it. May be, I was holding back, something inside me didn't approve. But not any longer. On my journey to self-discovery, I don't know how many times I will have to dare myself to walk that extra mile, but I am no longer afraid to Dare Myself. 


  1. so true all of us just keep on waiting and time passes away like sand through hour glass..i hope watever change you have made its for your good ..nice post..


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